Honestly, I think if the idea’s coming from a place of curiosity and not manipulation, it’s worth exploring. Doesn’t mean you have to jump in, but having a real talk is healthy. Sometimes the fantasy is enough, sometimes it goes further. Either way, no harm in listening without judgment.

Actually, yeah—my wife was the one who brought it up first too. We ended up reading some wife sharing stories together and it made the convo way easier. Some of the stories mirrored what we were feeling but couldn’t say out loud. It helped us understand we weren’t alone and let us move forward without pressure.

Okay, this is gonna sound wild, but I think my wife might be hinting at wife sharing and I genuinely don’t know what to do with that. She’s been dropping little comments when we watch stuff together, like “imagine if…” and then just smiles. I always thought it was just something dudes bring up, not the other way around. Anyone else have a partner suggest it first?