My wife is open enough that if I can provide amble information and really stay involved with this we will be ok. Please dont get me wrong my wife is a loving mother and a fantastic mother. It takes one hell of a person to homeschool 3 children all the while putting her own life and needs on hold. She is truelly looking out for the best interest of our daughter, I just believe she is going about it the wrong way and is to trusting of those in the professional world.
Reading the post about children acting out to get attention, I believe this is some of what my daughter is doing.
During soccer it is all about my daughter. Bassically 9 months out of the year we devote our life to her and her soccer. Going to practice together, going to out of state tournaments and so on.
The past 3 months the attention has been switched to my middle daughter who competes in competitive cheerleading. All the attention that was once given to the oldest has been switched to the middle child. My oldest has expressed the fact that during cheerleading she has felt left out. Factor in the fact that before this year she was with her mother pretty much all day during the homeschool years. Now she does not have that interaction with her mother and I do believe she feels left out since her other 2 sisters are with their mother almost every day. Thanks again guys, I am really getting some great information to put together.
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