There is NOTHING in any statute anywhere that says parents can't discipline there kids. Nothing more than what was on the books back in the 60's, 70's, 80's or otherwise. The problem is parents and just about everyone else is dooped by the media into believing there is this massive movement by the courts to completely eliminate any and all discipline by parents. That is absolutely false. If you've ever been involved in the legal system, the first thing you'll find is that a great majority of cops are normal, everyday rational thinkers who believe in parents disciplining their kids. The problem is parents are now using the excuse that "the courts will just throw me in jail if I discipline my kids" attitude. That is a knee jerk reaction that is just false. And most judges are TOO hesitant to take any action to step in on family matters, often times leaving kids with parents who are unfit.
I don't know this mother or how she operates. Obviously there are some issues there, but it's NOT always the parents fault, either. My guess is that it is in this case though. But, considering mom's attitude, how is a drawn out court case going to improve anything?? It won't, in fact it will only serve to make matters worse and increase the tension between the two house holds.
Teens are teens. They are cruel, immature, cocky and believe they can say and do no wrong. Usually the only thing that changes that is time and life experience. You can beat that kid all you want, it's probably not going to change his demeanor or his outlook on what he does.
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