As far as not knowing someone, I joked about my wife but I doubt she would ever do anything close to this to something of mine. I met her in April, we were engaged in May, married the following January. Very quick (no she wasnt pregnant

), this past Jan we celebrated our 34th anniv. Never really had a big fight. We are pretty much yin/yang. As hyper as she can get I am equally as mild. I tend to keep everything on the verge of being a packrat, she throws something away that hasnt been used in the last week. Has been a good balance.