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Originally Posted by i82much
What if she said I could only work 7 hours a day? Where does it end?
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A lot of us don't get to choose our hours. Mine is 8-5 and i live 1.5 hours from work. What hours would you normally work? Because that should be your normal hours. For her, no more than normal. For the kid, sometimes less than normal.
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Originally Posted by i82much
Again - I'm not at the bar. I don't travel much for work. I am home every night to put my kid to bed. I just want us to use a babysitter to give me a little more time to get my side of things done.
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I, like you, don't go out. I have put my wife through hell in the past so she has something to compare "now" to. My wife is not a professional so having a sitter is a waste of money and defeats the purpose of her having a job.
I had kids after i was married. not that the child is the reason you are getting married. Not that it matters my mom was pregnant with me when they married, and they just had there 40th.
My situation was similar except it wasn't workouts but, shop time. I had none! so i get it. If this is the smallest fight you ever lose, count your blessings! Or..................
sometimes it's just easier to ask forgiveness than it is permission! lol
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